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Sunday, April 8, 2012

Taking Care of Business


Last weekend (which is actually three weekends ago though that doesn’t ring true with teaching on Saturday and Sunday of this past weekend) Cynthia and I went to Beijing for a conference on highly effective teaching.  We left a day earlier to give us a chance to see some sights.  Our plane touched down Saturday afternoon to bluer than blue skies, a rarity in such a pollution-heavy metropolis.

Our first stop: the Forbidden City – the well-known palace of Imperial China moved to Beijing from further South to better rule the tough border with Mongolia.  The palace closes at 3:00pm in low-tourist season and we arrived around 3:35.  Thus, the Forbidden City will remain just that: forbidden.  We were able to walk through two entrances to the South Gate of the palace, the gate that faces Tiananmen Square.  The golden accented roofs atop the red walls gleamed in the sunshine.  No matter how much I pleaded, Mulan would not open the door for me, leaving me quite upset.

We trekked from the palace gate, back to the subway – an impossibly stuffed train.  We found our destination, a backpacker’s, in a “historic neighborhood.”  Zoning laws kept the buildings short and the streets narrow.  The backpacker’s runs trips to the Great Wall, so we paid our dues for the following morning, and then explored the streets on our of way to the hotel.

Exhausted, I found my bed after getting off at the wrong subway stop, having not-so-delicious pizza hut, and shopping for some supplies for our hike.

Sunday found me on my way to the Great Wall in a white van stuffed with laowai!  We all got to chatting immediately; a favorite part of traveling.  After a 3-hour ride, we arrived.  A quick (10 min) climb up some stairs, of course, got me onto the Great Wall! The Great Wall of China…I couldn’t believe it. The section I hiked, Jinshanling, did not look like the white/grey wall often depicted in pictures.  This section was stone, but browner and the lack of contrast in much of the landscape didn’t help it stand out.  The real attraction though was the 2nd half or so of the hike, where the wall was fully unrestored.   Parts of the wall had no sides along the top and other parts climbed steeply with many broken stairs.  It had snowed the week before and traces of ice/snow were around.  The usual walk goes a bit further, but the next section of the wall was closed so we had to end a bit early.

Along the way, I got to talking and joking with many in our party.  Everyone seemed to be in good spirits—and how could they not be?  It was a gorgeous no-cloud-blue-sky day and we were walking along the Great Wall.  The end came too soon, and I had only snapped a couple pictures (you know, less than one hundred—which is just a couple).  Our guide, Emily –from the backpackers–, encouraged a fast pace which felt a bit rushed.  I took a moment at the end of the wall to pass out some Timtams (NZ cookies found at Carrefour in Beijing) to some of the group and after everyone went down, I took my Great Wall moment and just starred at it, and the mountains behind in the distance.

We returned to the backpackers where Cynthia and I decided to grab a beer with a couple we had met and two other guys.  The couple, from Holland, were wonderfully engaging; she a child psychologist and him an architect. Peking Duck was on everyone’s mind so together with an additional American traveler, we set out to find a place.  Well we found a place, and a backroom table, and even duck—though it wasn’t Peking duck.  Dinner was ridiculous—full of laughter between, what felt like, old friends.  I crack up even thinking about it.

Afterwards, Cynthia and I train-ed to the closed Tiananmen square and then back to our hotel; I’m just not great at seeing that palace area!

Monday, after an interesting breakfast, we met the other teachers and walked to one of the Dipont schools in Beijing for the conference.  It was were nice to hear the experiences of other teachers, though the AQM (academic quality manager) seemed to rush through some discussion points raised that may have been helpful to fully discuss.

Monday evening, Cynthia, Peter, Michael, and myself found Peking duck and more at a restaurant close to the school.  Good company and delicious duck, duck sauce, pancakes and more!  The wasabi cabbage rolls however, proved too much.  The first one I ate, smothered in Chinese wasabi opened up my sinuses in a whole new way---while the second went right to the stomach.  Peter had the sort of stories I hope to have when I’m close to 60 and Michael will be teaching AP Psychology next year in his center.

I returned to the hotel and watched some television in English—a real treat and then slept.

After a morning conference on Tuesday, Ryan, Cynthia, and I found a cab and headed to Tiananmen Square en route to the airport.  Ryan, and his wife Elizabeth, both teach at the A-level (British system) school in Chengdu.  His Chinese was good enough to have us pay the driver a bit extra for him to wait while Cynthia and I rushed around the world’s largest square!  Finally, I got in and walked a fast circle and left.  It is a large square, which about sums it up for me.

On the plane ride back, Ryan entertained us with stories and videos of his travels in China; he’s a bit of a goof.  Made it back home and made sure I was ready for 5 more workdays, as the upcoming holiday meant we had to have a 7-day work week?  China doesn’t seem to fully understand the point of time off, but I do, which is why I was heading to Sanya in Hainan, China’s southernmost province in 5 days for a quick 3-night trip.

Beijing seemed nice, but the 4 days of super-blue sky did not properly represent the city’s image.  I’ve since heard that some schools have indoor recess some days, when the pollution is too high.  That alone, is enough to make me quite hesitant to return to Beijing.

My first business trip was a success, though I lack a good business trip demeanor.  Guess I’m still a kid, which is fine by me.

Friday, February 24, 2012

Fun Even Without the Sun (It's Friday!)

It's Friday!

I apologize if any part of Rebecca Black's single just started playing in your head.  But hey, it IS Friday.  So I blogged about how much stress there is in my job and then guess what? All the stress is gone!

Okay--no, not really, not that good.  But it is Friday, which feels good.  I'm at work about to start planning out Monday AND Tuesday's lesson (cuz I was a bit more on top of my work this week).  I just picked a band "Time Reversal" to see tonight at a bar called Hemp House.  ALSO, last night I got to talk to Katie, the head of Dipont fellows.  The company lacks some communication and Chengdu is very much far away from the other centers, so people did not really realize that there was a Dipont fellow here.  Oh well, that's okay, problem is solved and some of my bosses have said some really nice things about me for sticking through the 4 months of no contact with the greater structure.

I'm left feeling a bit stronger as I have been working in independently since October.  To my credit, I did try to reach out but didn't have the right names to e-mail.  Now though, I am connected to the network of fellows and Katie will be checking in with me every week.  It sounds like every center has some trouble, but that's to be expected as the rate of change in this country is so fast.  I also feel better because I've gotten some things done.  The work is not over and teaching Psychology is very much getting in the way of my other duties, but I'm about to start teaching developmental psychology on Monday and really can't wait.  The kids have figured out I have a background in acting...not sure how the figured that out...lol.

Today is also great because I took a 40 min piano break after my 7:30 college session.  And that always feels good.

 I have believed for years that I am able to determine my own happiness.  Part of that skill is choosing what to focus on.  No, it doesn't mean flat-out ignoring everything that bothers oneself.  It involves tracking down chocolate chips and coconut flakes and making cookies.  Or, buying a mop that is the COOLEST mop I have ever owned.  (I made a fantastic decision this week that a 200RMB mop was worth it.  Never again shall I clean my floors on my knees; I shall use technology!  And seriously, this mop feels very high-tech.  The mop head rotates and after dipping it in the water you can place it in this cup-like structure and as you press down, it SPINS!  Essentially I've purchased an 80s cleaning montage accessory.)

And this is all great news: I can become excited about buying a mop!  A simpleton maybe, but hey, it brought smiles and childlike laughter to my tired-looking face; the same laugh when I ride my bike.  Gosh, I may be holding on to all these responsibilities, but I'm still me.  Sure, I felt stuck and do during the week with all my time seeming to belong to others, but I'm making that choice.  I choose to do 110% for this job because I do care.  There, I've said it, it's out there for all to see.

The best part? I'm in China.  I forget this in all the stress through the week and then end up spending my weekends not taking advantage of this wonderful opportunity.  But not tonight.  Tonight I'm going to my first live show to see "Time Reversal" a pop/rock Chinese band.  I don't know anything about them, but I bet, if I keep this feeling, it's gonna be great.

So I have a choice, and I'm gonna choose to be happy.  If this experience keeps being stressful and I keep being able to rise above it, then this will be really what I came here to do.  To push myself and learn how to better cope with the stress of the kind of life I want to lead: fast-paced and a bit ridiculous.

Wishing you all a merry weekend.  Go do something fun!